A Dream From

03-26-2007

There was a mother who had a young daughter, who gave birth to a little baby.  The young mother did not know how to care for the baby, and neither did the older mother know how to teach her daughter and lead her in the right way to care for the baby. 

The daughter would take the baby and put it into a swing, and the baby was too little to even be able to hold itself upright.  Then the mother would come and have to get the baby out.  The baby was so small that the older mother could pick it up with one hand. 

But one day when she picked the baby up, she saw the right arm of the baby dangling in an unnatural way.  The mother of the baby had put some straps (like those of a car seat) on the baby, and someone had picked the baby up without removing the straps.  And when this was done, one of the arms was broken! 

Who could have done such a thing? 

The mother picked up the baby and when she saw the way the arm dangled, she knew that the broken arm would have to be set, so that the baby would not grow up and have no use of this arm. 

The daughter had "medic-aid", provided for her by the government.  But the new baby was not enrolled in this program.  The mother was telling the daughter that she should try to take the baby there to the doctor anyway, in hopes that they would see the baby and help them.  But she also knew that they only care about money, and if the baby was not in their system, they would not help them. 

So she then it came to her remembrance about not teaching the younger ones in a way that is not of the Lord.  So she said to take the baby to the Man of God and see what he could do to help them.

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Then on this day, I went to the website the Lord has us to go to, to receive the Word, www.carrium.com and read this: And, who are these parents who are being stumbling blocks to their children?

I rejoiced!  Because this is what the dream was talking about!  The older mother was not shown as being a good example of teaching the younger ones to be a good wife and mother.  And the evidence was with the younger mother, not knowing how to care for her child!  I looked at the way that the older mother leaned to, first, when she needed help.  She first looked to the government, and then when she realized that they would not help her, then she said, we will go to the Lord.  But why not turn to God first?  Why is He the second choice? 

Also, where were the husbands?  Where was the father of the baby?  And where was the father to the young mother?

I looked at vicious cycles repeating itself!  There was a mother who grew up depending on the system for support, and then she had a daughter, who grew up in the system.  Now there was a new baby that they also wanted to put into the system.

I have had people come and ask me questions about where is a certain office, like Child Support or WIC offices, and I tell them I do not know!  I do not lean to the way of the world for my help.  I do not know their ways and where they are, because my trust is in the Lord and He is my only supplier for all of my needs!

The older women are to teach the younger ones to be good wives and to be a guide for the home.  It says, in Titus 2:3-5 saying:

The vicious cycle has to end!  And I understand that the older woman's thoughts started to change, because she then started to look to the Lord for the help.  Even though she thought of the system first, the Holy Ghost did have something to bring to her remembrance as to what to do. 

We are to never think that there is anything that is too impossible for God to handle! 

There was a time when I used to go to doctors for help.  I did not know any other way, then the way that I was taught.  My mother would go, and she would take us.  Then when I became a mother, I had our first child at a hospital... because I knew no other way!

Then when the Man of God came into my life, and I told him I was pregnant with a second child, he began to teach me and tell me that I could have the baby at home with a midwife.  This was the first time that an alternative was offered to me, other then going in the way that I was programmed to go! 

I was given a cesarean with the first child, because I had full coverage insurance and the hospital makes more money with a c-section, then they do with a natural birth.  16 years ago the cost for a c-section was $5,000 and a natural birth only $2,000.  There's no telling how much it costs now! 

I was told, by the so-called doctor, that I could not have a child naturally.  But that proved to be a lie, because our next child that was born, was heavier and bigger then the first, and the third child was the biggest of them all!  And I had the last two children at home!

The cycle of going to doctor's has ended with me, and now that I have a daughter, I teach her the same things that I have learned. 

God does not teach His women to be weak, and we do not need all of these things to have a baby!  And we do not need all of these things to take care of a baby.  In the dream, I saw evidence of not wanting to be bothered with rocking a baby, because the mother put the baby in a swing to rock, and also in a car seat when she could have held the baby in her lap or in her arms when she was around the house. 

I have never seen a baby sleep more comfortable and more at peace when he is in the arms of its mother.  When she holds the child up to her breast, the baby hears and feels what was familiar to him, when he was in the womb.  He feels the warmth, and hears the heartbeat of his mother. 

But in the dream, I saw the careless way both mothers would hold the baby!

The blind leading the blind will cause both to fall into a ditch!  

UPDATE:  ONE MONTH LATER, THE LORD GAVE ME THIS DREAM!

04-27-2007

One month later I had another dream that showed a young mother who did not know how to care for her baby.  She was holding the baby in a dangerous way and shaking the baby a lot.  I grabbed her and the child and told her that she needed to hold the baby in a certain way.   The baby's arm had actually been torn off and someone was holding a platter, with the arm on it! I saw it and I wanted to throw up, because it was so disgusting!  It looked like a full term baby had been aborted and the arm was torn off of the socket!  I showed the mother how to hold the baby and asked if she knew how to swaddle the child.  She would not answer me.  I took a towel and wrapped the baby in it showing the mother how to swaddle it.  I told her that nothing could be done about what was already done,   but let's work on right now and preventing any more damage.  I also knew that the young mother was going to need strength to withstand the arrows that were going to be shot out at her because of what her carelessness did.  We were in the rest room when all of this was taking place. 

But when I first saw the young mother, we were on a bus and when we got off I ran to catch her and tell her about what she was doing.  She held the child in a way, as if she did not care about it at all!`